I'm doing well- an update
06.29.09 (5:35 pm) [edit]
I just wanted to leave a quick update. I think the last time I wrote, I was not in a good place. Well that's certainly changed! And I appreciate all the warm thoughts.
I have a job. It's not the easiest job in the world, but it's refreshing earning my own paycheck. And considering that it's a pretty physically demanding job, I'm really earning it. I guess I get a sense of accomplishment from it. It's not something I'll be doing the rest of my life, but it's just about perfect for right now.
I am going back to school. That starts in September, and it's an accelerated degree, so in about 1.5-2 years, I should have my Bachelor's degree. Law school will follow that. This particular program lets me declare an emphasis on cyber law if I so choose. Considering that's a developing area of law and it's set to explode in the next few years, I definitely choose it!! It could provide some really interesting opportunities.
My art is doing phenomenally. Last month, I went with some friends to an art gallery to see an artist we know. She had already left for the evening, but I checked out some pieces that were there and bought one. As I did, I reached into my purse, pulled out a card, and gave it to the woman. She was amazed and offered me a spot in their July show right there on the spot. A friend of mine is putting together a show in August, and then I was accepted into the massive city-wide show in September. So, 3 months, 3 shows!! I feel like my star is on the rise.
Financially, I'm doing alright. The job paid more than I thought, and the September art show has been a little pricy to get ready for, but I still have enough that I can afford to pay off a credit card or two, put a little in savings, have a few bucks for mad money, and maybe even get started on one of the new hobbies I want to take up. All in all, not a bad situation to be in.
And on the romance front- I dated a couple of guys. I thought one might have some potential, but it kind of fizzled out for both of us at the same time. Still, if you've got to have something end, best for both parties to come to that same conclusion at exactly the same time, and without any hard feelings. A few days after, I started talking with a guy who was originally from Oklahoma, where I was originally born and raised. He was in Baghdad as a computer contractor up until about 2.5 months ago, which is almost exactly the time I split up with my ex. We started in the same place and ended up in the same place at exactly the same time, and the coincidences are just really striking to me. He's an amazing person who has this special way of making everyone- even complete strangers- feel important and cared for, and he's an absolute gentleman. I'm having a lot of fun with him, and though I think a lot of people would think we're both diving in too deeply too quickly, it feels right. There isn't a single thing about him that gives me a reason to pause or feel like things are rushed, and he has had a lot of chances to run, but is absolutely crazy about me. Now, that doesn't mean we're moving in together tomorrow or anything. We're both having a lot of fun with the romance of it all, and content to follow that wherever it leads.
I'm doing really, really well, and I feel loved, cherished, adored, accomplished, secure, safe, wise, and like a million bucks! ;)
I have a job. It's not the easiest job in the world, but it's refreshing earning my own paycheck. And considering that it's a pretty physically demanding job, I'm really earning it. I guess I get a sense of accomplishment from it. It's not something I'll be doing the rest of my life, but it's just about perfect for right now.
I am going back to school. That starts in September, and it's an accelerated degree, so in about 1.5-2 years, I should have my Bachelor's degree. Law school will follow that. This particular program lets me declare an emphasis on cyber law if I so choose. Considering that's a developing area of law and it's set to explode in the next few years, I definitely choose it!! It could provide some really interesting opportunities.
My art is doing phenomenally. Last month, I went with some friends to an art gallery to see an artist we know. She had already left for the evening, but I checked out some pieces that were there and bought one. As I did, I reached into my purse, pulled out a card, and gave it to the woman. She was amazed and offered me a spot in their July show right there on the spot. A friend of mine is putting together a show in August, and then I was accepted into the massive city-wide show in September. So, 3 months, 3 shows!! I feel like my star is on the rise.
Financially, I'm doing alright. The job paid more than I thought, and the September art show has been a little pricy to get ready for, but I still have enough that I can afford to pay off a credit card or two, put a little in savings, have a few bucks for mad money, and maybe even get started on one of the new hobbies I want to take up. All in all, not a bad situation to be in.
And on the romance front- I dated a couple of guys. I thought one might have some potential, but it kind of fizzled out for both of us at the same time. Still, if you've got to have something end, best for both parties to come to that same conclusion at exactly the same time, and without any hard feelings. A few days after, I started talking with a guy who was originally from Oklahoma, where I was originally born and raised. He was in Baghdad as a computer contractor up until about 2.5 months ago, which is almost exactly the time I split up with my ex. We started in the same place and ended up in the same place at exactly the same time, and the coincidences are just really striking to me. He's an amazing person who has this special way of making everyone- even complete strangers- feel important and cared for, and he's an absolute gentleman. I'm having a lot of fun with him, and though I think a lot of people would think we're both diving in too deeply too quickly, it feels right. There isn't a single thing about him that gives me a reason to pause or feel like things are rushed, and he has had a lot of chances to run, but is absolutely crazy about me. Now, that doesn't mean we're moving in together tomorrow or anything. We're both having a lot of fun with the romance of it all, and content to follow that wherever it leads.
I'm doing really, really well, and I feel loved, cherished, adored, accomplished, secure, safe, wise, and like a million bucks! ;)
Trucks
04.06.09 (3:27 pm) [edit]
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My ex has had a couple of chevy trucks. Most notably, and El Camino. I can't admit I've ever understood that. There's something about El Caminos that guys like, and every girl I've talked to can't stand them. Some girls I know have gone so far as saying they'd never date a guy who drove one. In fact, I recall saying that. His mom had a Chevy 4x4 I believe his nephew now owns it. It's not really my style either.
Me, I'm a Ford girl. And I'm not opposed to pickups, lest you think that. I think a newer ford f250 is just about my style. Yeah, I go for the "cowboy limos".
My parents owned a couple of trucks way back when. Apart from that, they've been die-hard car people. I always liked their pontiac, and would have much rather driven that to school than the ugly, beatup minivan I had to drive.
My ex has had a couple of chevy trucks. Most notably, and El Camino. I can't admit I've ever understood that. There's something about El Caminos that guys like, and every girl I've talked to can't stand them. Some girls I know have gone so far as saying they'd never date a guy who drove one. In fact, I recall saying that. His mom had a Chevy 4x4 I believe his nephew now owns it. It's not really my style either.
Me, I'm a Ford girl. And I'm not opposed to pickups, lest you think that. I think a newer ford f250 is just about my style. Yeah, I go for the "cowboy limos".
My parents owned a couple of trucks way back when. Apart from that, they've been die-hard car people. I always liked their pontiac, and would have much rather driven that to school than the ugly, beatup minivan I had to drive.
Sorry
04.06.09 (3:18 pm) [edit]
Not much to write right now. I've had a very difficult year so far, and it just got worse. My husband and I are splitting up. I'm not exactly a willing participant in all of this, but it seems I don't get a say. In addition, my house has gone back to the bank, and I recently had a breast cancer scare (I am fine, thankfully).
I'm sure you've noticed that I'm writing more here now. The simple fact is, I've got two kids to support, and no job or skills that could readily land me a job. I've done the ads before, and it's time to start them back up.
I'm just kind of bereft of anything meaningful to say right now. I apologize.
I'm sure you've noticed that I'm writing more here now. The simple fact is, I've got two kids to support, and no job or skills that could readily land me a job. I've done the ads before, and it's time to start them back up.
I'm just kind of bereft of anything meaningful to say right now. I apologize.
TV
04.05.09 (4:47 pm) [edit]
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A while back, I canceled my cable subscription. It's still a decision I struggle with. I can sit and tell you that there's nothing good on tv, and mean every word of it. But with the next breath, I'll tell you all about the shows that are the exception. lol And free tv might work for me, except that we don't even have an NBC affiliate here, so I get NBC, CBS, PBS, maybe Fox and CW, and some Spanish language station and one that plays only shows from the 70's. Seriously.
I seriously thought about getting Direct TV. I suppose I'm still thinking about it. I stopped by directtv.com last week to see what sort of packages they have to offer, but it's hard to make up my mind. I really love the premium channels and have really no interest in the ordinary cable channels, but my kids are the opposite. They want stuff like Cartoon Network and don't care about HBO since we won't let them watch anything on it anyway.
One of these days I'll find some DirecTV Specials that are too good to pass up. Until then, I guess I'm going to have to miss out on all the shows everyone is talking about.
A while back, I canceled my cable subscription. It's still a decision I struggle with. I can sit and tell you that there's nothing good on tv, and mean every word of it. But with the next breath, I'll tell you all about the shows that are the exception. lol And free tv might work for me, except that we don't even have an NBC affiliate here, so I get NBC, CBS, PBS, maybe Fox and CW, and some Spanish language station and one that plays only shows from the 70's. Seriously.
I seriously thought about getting Direct TV. I suppose I'm still thinking about it. I stopped by directtv.com last week to see what sort of packages they have to offer, but it's hard to make up my mind. I really love the premium channels and have really no interest in the ordinary cable channels, but my kids are the opposite. They want stuff like Cartoon Network and don't care about HBO since we won't let them watch anything on it anyway.
One of these days I'll find some DirecTV Specials that are too good to pass up. Until then, I guess I'm going to have to miss out on all the shows everyone is talking about.
Michelle Obama Dares to Wear a Sweater.
04.05.09 (4:33 pm) [edit]
Apparently, some are up in arms over Michelle Obama's decision to wear a sweater when she met the Queen. Reports are, Oscar de la Renta said, “You don’t show up at Buckingham Palace…in a sweater."
Being an American, I am mostly ignorant of what one would wear to meet the Queen. I just don't get the protocol. Now, that doesn't mean I would show up in shorts, flip-flops, and a tank top if I ever was lucky enough to be invited to the palace. But my first reaction was that the Queen obviously has no problem with polyester, and I doubt she's offended by a nice sweater. ;) Sorry. That was cheeky of me.
Being an American, I am mostly ignorant of what one would wear to meet the Queen. I just don't get the protocol. Now, that doesn't mean I would show up in shorts, flip-flops, and a tank top if I ever was lucky enough to be invited to the palace. But my first reaction was that the Queen obviously has no problem with polyester, and I doubt she's offended by a nice sweater. ;) Sorry. That was cheeky of me.
